#6 - Living Fully and Without Regret

Treat life like you’re on top of the world

By Armaan Athwal

Living Fully and Without Regret

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Approximate read time: 5 Minutes

Today's Overview:

  • Living a life of regret

  • Make every moment count

  • Living the high road

  • Quote of the day

Living a Life of Regret

The average human lives roughly 4,000 weeks, with a third of that dedicated to sleep.

Example based on my age

With such limited time it becomes clear that each moment holds significance, urging us to make intentional choices and avoid squandering the time we have. It's necessary to accept the reality that time is a precious commodity, and let it motivate us to live with purpose, passion, and a relentless pursuit of our dreams.

Many times we drift through life, barely putting effort and simply coasting along. Then, when a cherished opportunity arises, we either overanalyze it or fail to give it the consideration it deserves, allowing it to slip through our grasps unnoticed.

If there's something you desire, don't hesitate to pursue it. Making excuses or convincing yourself it won't work only holds you back. If you believe you can't, you're already limiting yourself. Of course, you won’t be able to do it then!

Approach decisions with mindfulness, intentionality, and a profound appreciation for the present. Whether it's about career choices, relationships, or personal pursuits, embracing each decision with a sense of seizing the moment and expressing love and gratitude can help guide us toward a life of fulfillment and purpose. By prioritizing acts of kindness, thoughtfulness, and alignment with our values, we can navigate life's choices with clarity, integrity, and a commitment to living authentically.

It's about making decisions that resonate with our deepest desires and contribute positively to our well-being and the world around us.

Make Every Moment Count

“In the final decade of his life, my grandfather woke up every single day at 7 A.M., picked a fresh wild flower on his morning walk, and took it to my grandmother. One morning, I decided to go with him to see her. And as he placed the flower on her gravestone, he looked up at me and said, ‘I just wish I had picked her a fresh flower every morning when she was alive. She really would have loved that.’” - Marc Chernoff

This anecdote really touched me as it's a reminder of the things we often overlook until it's too late.

This should also be used as a reminder of our ability to shape our lives and the world around us through deliberate actions and thoughtful choices. We shouldn’t allow fear or hesitation to hinder us from expressing our values and passions, whether it's through acts of kindness, pursuing our dreams, or making a positive impact on our communities.

Prioritize what truly matters and don't hesitate to do so. Your life is solely dictated by yourself, and nothing else.

Living the High Road

Treat life like you’re on top of the world.

But being at the top of the world doesn’t mean you can lay back and live life on easy mode.

It means to do yourself a favor and pursue your ambitions. It means to challenge yourself and cultivate personal growth. It means accumulating experience.

There's nothing quite like the satisfaction of knowing you're actively building the best version of yourself and that you are giving it your all.

Here’s a challenge for you:
Choose one thing that you've always wanted to do that pushes you out of your comfort zone or scares you, and make a commitment to conquer it.

Break this up and think about it each step of the way.

When we continuously live like this, pushing ourselves out of our comfort zones and conquering our fears, we open ourselves up to new opportunities for growth, learning, and fulfillment.

By actively pursuing our goals and facing our fears head-on, we avoid the pitfalls of regret that stem from missed opportunities and unfulfilled potential. Instead of looking back with a sense of longing for what could have been, we can move forward with confidence, knowing that we've embraced challenges and seized every opportunity for growth and personal development.

Quote of the Day

Life can be much broader once you discover one simple fact: Everything around you that you call life was made up by people that were no smarter than you and you can change it.” - Steve Jobs

Don’t be afraid to take action. Consider all the incredible achievements made by others – they were all brought into existence through action.